“You are asking for and building trust. At the time you are asking for trust, you are also asking another person to disrobe and turn their back to you. This can be fun. It can be terrifying. But what it should not be is awkward.”
“Commodity”: A generic, largely unprocessed, good that can be processed and resold. Commodities traded in the financial markets for immediate or future delivery are grains, metals, and minerals. They are generally traded in very large quantities. See also: single women in typical American dating culture. (last sentence mine)
Do you cook? How do you cook? Signature dish? What’s hers—and has she ever tried sous vide or something like that?
You don’t want to be desperate in the sense that you don’t want to write some vast, endless novel about her immense beauty and digging into everything she’s written in her profile like an FBI agent.